I've always been a terrible decision-maker. This is why, in both my career and my love life, I would weigh all the pros and cons, get input from friends and family, and ultimately make a half-hearted decision that gave me an out. I didn't trust my instincts. Meaning, I never jumped right in to . . .
Insecurity, I thought I’d left you behind for good.
Nothing feels more ego-deflating than the moment you discover that you weren't as mature and together as you thought. I always considered myself to be a self-aware kind of person. I joined yoga and meditation classes in my early twenties when I should have been passing out in a drunken stupor on the . . .
Dating/ hanging out
I'm not a fan of ambiguity. And it seems like that's in right now. What I mean is, there's not much "dating" going on, more like "hanging out" and seeing what happens. Which is fine, until it's not. I mean, what's wrong with calling a date an actual date? Maybe I'm old-school, but if you're . . .
Things to think about on your Valentine’s Day Eve…
For me, Valentine's Day has always been overrated. I mean, it's a greeting card holiday and an excuse for companies to make money through sentiment. Okay, that's the cynic in me, but you know what I'm talking about. Then there's the other side of me that sees February 14th as a day filled with . . .
Using your radar
I was having drinks with a friend of mine last week. We were sitting at the bar, having a rather heated discussion about the struggles of dating and boys (of course). I'm firmly in the "of course you'll find someone if you're patient and persistent" camp, while she's more of the "I'll believe it . . .
Technology and relationships…do they really work together?
I like my smartphone, Twitter, and Facebook accounts. I rely on them when I'm out to meetings, working, or running errands. Somehow if I have access to the online world I feel like I'm connected to people. Never mind that I could go through the grocery store and do all of my shopping without talking . . .