Q: I have been going out with a guy for about three months. Most of the time, it’s great – he is romantic, fun, and makes me feel sexy and attractive. But other times it’s like he withdraws. He keeps pulling away from me. He doesn’t answer his phone, he ignores my texts, and he makes excuses as to why he can’t see me for days at a time, whether it’s work, a family issue, or just that he’s tired. I’m really sick of all of this back and forth. I want to know – is he interested in me or not? Am I wasting my time, or should I stick it out and accept that maybe he just gets moody?
Ladies, how many times have we all wondered exactly where a relationship was going or what a guy was thinking? If you’re like me, probably too many to admit.
While I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, when it comes to relationships, actions speak louder than words. To me, it seems as though your guy is living two separate lives – one with you as his girlfriend, and one on his own – or possibly even with another woman. Three months isn’t long enough to have him wandering off for periods of time without returning your calls and texts. That seems to me like he’s hiding something, likely another relationship.
While we could speculate all day long, let’s get to the main point. [Read More...]